I don't have a problem with that, but we haven't passed those equivalent sex acts to males and I think it's a shame. I mean shit, keep a bottle of water, mouth wash, or whatever nearby rather than trying to push something on someone that they're not comfortable with. I became more in touch with my self and my sexuality. . One even indulged me in snowballing and it was incredibly sexy.
Sex in the City actually had a hand in helping me with that. Of course, you have to be considerate of his feelings. I'm not trying to make this some huge gender war that porn started. My ex gf was the one who wouldn't kiss me after she gave me my first bj because she thought I would be grossed out. To me, it's part of appreciating what you're asking of your partner and taking more than you give makes it harder for me to enjoy that person. Born: 1970-06-20 Career: 1991 to 2007. It's not at all unreasonable that a guy doesn't want to taste his own cum.
If the guy thinks it's gross then he shouldn't make his gf do that and she shouldn't have to. Rather, I'd just love to see this same message, but aimed at guys, be shared. Talk to him about how gays get their cock sucked, too, but they get their cock sucked by men, and that is what makes them gay, not that they are unafraid of semen. Else how can you ask for anal? In the hopes of making you feel less weird about it, I asked my anonymous circle of men to share their thoughts on They were more than happy to oblige me! Her booming rack and firm pink nips? I just keep a glass of water by the bed. Two guys I've been intimate with recently have been happy to pash after - they're quite sexually open people though.
There are so many options. I used to find it abhorrent, but then one girl told me while cleaning my penis post coitus that she loved tasting herself on me, and it kind of clicked that it's not any different for me to taste myself on her. But when you try and commence after oral for the first time, it's always a little nerve wracking. I've had one partner in my life, and I tasted my cum before she partner did. Maybe I'm weird and sentimental but it almost feels like a spiritual gift to me when she does. Samantha, I think, said a guy shouldn't ask a girl to do something he wouldn't do in the context of swallowing.
As a woman, I'm left wanting a lot the same from guys that they seem to just assume I'd be cool with anal, licking my juices off them, etc. Granted, I don't want to swallow my own cum. So, when I finally tasted my semen, it was honestly kind of a big deal for me, but I realized that I had a double standard if I was expecting her to be 'ok' with cum but I wasn't. But where do you start? Yet I haven't heard much complaining about someone's boyfriend refusing to wear an anal toy. Mostly because I was insecure that it would make me gay or less of a man in a way. I'm generally not keen on people who hope for or expect certain acts but wouldn't reciprocate.
But it still slightly grosses me out. This coming from a man who has no issues with the problem mentioned. Some guys want you to take a sip or water, some guys actually want you to go and brush your teeth before they consider kissing after oral. Kissing after cumming is not about tasting cum, but about sharing experience and mutual respect. I mean, being grossed out by it is like saying disgusting and I don't want anything that was near it touching my lips. She doesn't really keep it in her mouth very long and doesn't get any on her face. But the day my gf decided to try sucking on my balls and kiss me i had showered well just before sexy time that taste is a no go idk what the difference is she didnt seem to mind or at least didnt say any thing so needless to say i dont get my balls sucked anymore.
I really regret never doing it before, and feel really selfish now that I look back in hindsight. Check out what they had to say about kissing after oral: Okay guys, so, what do you think about kissing after she gives you a blowjob? There will always be that moment of hesitation when after you give him a blowjob for the first time, that strange half second where you try to read his mind. Now, I haven't licked her clean after cumming inside, but I'm kind of a freak and would do it if requested. When it comes to , men are weird creatures. Well, because not every guy is into on your lips when you kiss.
I wanted her to let me finish in her mouth long before she ever did, but I didn't feel like I could ask or expect her to because I had never done it myself. I keep telling her I don't care either way. After I go down on her she doesn't want to kiss and after she goes down on me she will actually turn her head away. My lady friend does a quick swallow right down the back of the throat. The latest girl I am sleeping with thinks it's weird.